Read the following letter to Abby and respond to Stumped
Dear Abby: Last Saturday night my husband and I went to the movies. Upon arriving home earlier than expected, we found our fifteen-year-old daughter on the couch with her boyfriend. They were all wrapped up in each other in a most disgusting position.
We ordered the boy out of the house and forbade our daughter ever to see him again.
She flew into an angry rage and screamed that when two people are “in love” anything they did was “beautiful.” She threatened to leave home if we don’t let her see her boyfriend again.
What’s a mother to do?
Stumped
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Teacher.
Is this my homework?
Where could i response it?
In my blog or in this blog?
Panithan
I'm not sure if this is my homework. I'm not sure where should I post the ...feedback. But i'd decided that I'll put it in here and pretend that it's my homework.
Dear Stumped,
I understand how the parents feel when sexual things happen to their daughter in their own house. But you have you ever be an in-love-fifteen-year-old girl? I think you know how a girl feels when she has a boyfriend. At least, I do. If I were her, I'd do the same thing as she's doing now. That is threatening the parents.
Let them see each other and you should be more aware. By the way, if anything gets out of control, having sex is fine!! You should open up your mind and teach her how to have a safe sex too. She'll be your pretty daughter again if you're her pretty mommy. Don't let a boy break your beautiful relationship.
**Abby**
Dear Stumped
If I were you, i won't stop their relationship. Teenager will do anything depend on their emotion. Your dauther must leave her home exactly if you stop their relationship. Maybe they don't know what's right or wrong. So, you should tell them what should they do. Try to tell you dauther like this "First of all, you should love yourself before love others. In the future, we don't know what will be going on. So, you should think before do anything because if you have mistake, you cannot return to solve it. Give important to yourself. If you want to go out with your boyfriend, just tell me. I won't blame on you. I will let you go if it's approproate" You should talk with your dauther like a friend. So, she won't have a secret with you. If she has a problem, you should give suggestion or give good advise to her. Your dauther will love you so much and she will brave to talk everything to you. Try to do like the best mother should do.I wish you success.
^____________^
Abby
Dear Stumped.
If I were you I didn't cut out relationship between them. You should look after her and her boy friend in the care. But you should say with her and her boyfriend about relationship of both. Both should look after in the sight of parent. If she has a problem, you should give suggestion or give good advise to her not blame her. You should tell she aware of yourself about safe a sex before adult and give consulting about sex. You should ask about problem of your daughter and give suggestion when her has a problem.
You should give a freedom to her.
"Abby"
mink...:
You are quite progressive. what do you mean saying "if you're her pretty mommy." Does your mom know about your viewpoint?
NTD
nnn:I believe your mother will be proud of you.
NTD
jackja:
You seem to be an understanding parent.
NTD
mink...:
You are quite progressive. what do you mean saying "if you're her pretty mommy." Does your mom know about your viewpoint?
NTD
Thank you.
I meant if a mother behaves nice to her daughter, the daughter will behaves nice back.
My mom knows about my viewpoint but she doesn't agree with me.
If I were you.
I will talk with your daugther nicely.Because,I believe that every problem has the solution.
In this case, I think you should ask you daughther about her boyfriend and learn about them.I think it is not wrong if your daughter is in love while she is a student or 15 years old. I might too fast to have love when she is 15 years old. But, you should not break down thier relationship. because it might make your daugther feel bad and leave from home. But, you should tell her the way to have safe sex and tell her what should she do.
please do not be mad her too much. forgive her and every thing will be better.
With Love
-- Abby--
Teacher, I have just posted to answer Stumped at my blog. Ha Ha Ha. I was the 00:00 AM 9th when I posted. ^_^
WML:
I like this sentence of yours "I believe that every problem has the solution." You believe in premarital sex, don't you?
NTD
Dear Stumped.
If i wear you,i won't blame on my daughter about situation. You don't break down their relationship because your daughter will get angry with you. Maybe she will leave home. You should talk with your daughter and her boyfriend. Then, you should teach them about what 's right or wrong because they are so young.
Teach they know if they love each other they shouldn't focus only sex . They can express their love in other ways that good for them
such as, help each other to get good grade , see the movie together and etc. Lastly, you should try to talk with your daughter like a friend and give good suggestion to her.
Abby
Wan:
You should read carefully before posting. Read and see how you can make correction.
NTD
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